Thank you Shiloh! I am more or less (mostly more) doing everything on my own, and there are so many things involving feel that one simply cannot learn from books or videos. Both my horses tend to be somewhat schizoid, which is why I am trying to teach them some dressage-like behaviors. There is a trainer not too far from me, but I simply cannot afford it, especially now that I have two of them eating me out of house and home. The lesson fee isn’t the problem, it is the cost of transport.
It is never the horse's fault