We only show at home. His ground manners are excellent, and he never gets in my space. If I want him to move at any time, I need only tell him about it (back, turn, come around, whatever it is).
I really do think it must just be me, and will try that Be-Calm – that is something that just never crossed my mind until today! It is odd, because when I was younger, I was about the most calming person in the barn, at least with the horses. Not very good with people at all.
It is never the horse's fault